not everyone can say with much conviction that they are satisfied with themselves and their life. this is something i've learnt, but often forget, especially when im too caught up in my own little world of misery.
while it is true that good looking people for example generally tend to have life easier for them, i realise.. no make that realised that they've got problem of their own.
like, sure u may get the job over the less-than-attractive girl cos ur new boss thinks ur hot but then ur co workers may hate u, be it simply cos they're jealous of ur looks or cos u get all the attention from men etc etc. so u wind up lonely.
is that example relevant?
how abt another one.. i've seen and know of really popular, pretty girls who face many relationship problems of their own. is ur boyfriend with u cos u look good on his arm? does he really love u 4 who u are? do you really have friends .. or are they hanging with u to boost their image and get into that club?
its not surprising that some pretty girls end up with average/ugly (this is subjective) boyfriends, or are still single. and u wonder why...
i guess i can safely say that this applies to guys as well.
ok maybe im focusing too much on the looks factor here. how abt wealth? yes, we've all heard of that cliche saying.. ''money cant buy happiness''. u gotta admit its true. sometimes.
i also do know of pple who are filthy rich.. but only so because their parents give them cash to make up for lost time. buying love, i'd call it.
of course, if lots of cash makes u happy cos u can buy anything u want and show off.. then good 4u.
life is full of contradictions aint it.. why do celebrities complain abt all the attention they're getting from the paparazzi? in my opinion, they asked for it. and thats the job of the press. you help them sell newspapers.
fat people wanna lose some weight. thin people wanna put on more weight.
u can say im generalising, but u must agree that its true most of the time.
so i wonder to myself sometimes, as im doing now.. is anyone really happy?
there's always gonne be something to complain abt, something to improve........